The Freedom of Bondage

i believe there are some kinksters who may experience a sense of freedom living in chains and restraints. Although i do not have much experience in prolonged restraint, i can imagine how restraints, bondage and imprisonment could bring a sense of inner-freedom and inner-peace. That’s really what i wanted to write about today… bridging the…

A Field Guide To “Creepy Dom”

by Asher Bauer Introduction This is a public service announcement for the BDSM and kink community. It is especially directed at anyone relatively new, and extra especially at anyone who ever bottoms. For the benefit of everyone’s mental health and safety, I would like to discuss the widespread phenomenon known as Creepy Dom. Creepy Dom…

A Dom’s Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM (by a humble hungry sub)

WHAT IS PANIC ATTACK? The non-profit resource site HelpGuide.org offers this definition: “A panic attack is a sudden surge of overwhelming anxiety and fear. Your heart pounds and you can’t breathe. You may even feel like you’re dying or going crazy. Left untreated, panic attacks can lead to panic disorder and other problems. They may…