by Brian Dawson This is part 1 of a 4 part series on puppy play. Part 2: Types of Dogs and Puppies Part 3: Biology – Veterinary Tips for the Human Dog Part 4: Basic Training There are those of us in this wide world who, for one reason or another, identify with animals. For…
Sparking Your BDSM with Electricity
by Dean Dunlap In Real Estate they teach the three most important things to remember are location, location, and location. In Electricity, the three most important things to remember are safety, safety, and safety. Electricity is potentially dangerous. Hell yes! So is fisting. So is the highly volatile fluid fluid sloshing around under the back…
Strip Searches
by T.A. Feldwebel A good way of setting a mood in a prison scene is strip searches of a prisoner upon arrival. This is a standard procedure upon the admission of a prisoner to a military stockade but can be modified slightly to enhance the effect in a scene. When bringing your prisoner to the…
Illustrated Guide – Wax Melting Points
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. wax play: The top drips hot wax on the bottom. (See “fire and ice“) Safety note: It is important what kind of candle…
What’s the Big Deal About Spanking Butts?
by Gene K Admit it or not, we all would like to find some evidence of the existence of a caring deity, a God force in our world. For me, this evidence came in two forms. The first was made manifest to me in my early twenties. Someone cut into an apple. Only this time…
When the Dominant or Master has PTSD or Panic Attacks
This is part 3 of a 3 part article on PTSD and panic attacks. Part 1: 2 Ways to Deal with PTSD and Panic Attacks Part 2: When the submissive or slave has PTSD or Panic Attacks Dominant’s issues are very often swept under the carpet for various reasons. Firstly and generally, the BDSM community…
Taking BDSM to a Spiritual Level with Tantra
The first thing that comes to most people’s mind when they hear the word “tantra” is sex. The mysterious spiritually-connected image of Tantric Sex is as legendary as it is aspirational. If you have any spiritual practices, particularly Hatha Yoga and some lines of Buddhism, you might not be thinking of the sex, you might…
When is the Right Time to be Tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases?
If you’re sexually active, sexually transmitted diseased are a possibility. Your partner doesn’t have to be hiding anything from you, they can be transmitted even if he/she doesn’t know anything is wrong. Here’s advice from Luke Adams, a sexual health counselor: The window for gonorrhea to show up is 2-6 days. The window for chalmydia…
When the submissive or slave has PTSD or Panic Attacks
This is part 2 of a 2 part article on PTSD and panic attacks. Part 1: 2 Ways to Deal with PTSD and Panic Attacks Part 3: When the Dominant or Master has PTSD or Panic Attacks You might also like a previous article on this site, A Dom’s Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM…
Illustrated Guide – Body Writing Tools
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. Although the 1996 Peter Greenaway film The Pillow Book was an erotic and poetic look at body writing, in BDSM it is usually…