On dating apps and websites it starts when you fill out your profile. Other times it’s the first point to nail in negotiation. And, for some of us it can be quite hard to answer. “Are you top or bottom?” One complicating (or complicated!) thing for me is that I come from a Southeast Asian…
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Happy Holidays
It’s always a bit tricky to tell whether we’ve been naughty or nice. In a good year, I think we get the best of both worlds. Have a great Christmas! Image in post by Ismael Álvarez
Happy New Year, You Cheeky Monkey
Gong xi fa cai, happy new (lunar) year. Although in the West we like to fix dates (January 1st) for our occasions, in Japan, India, China and quite a lot of Asia, we work with the pull of the moon. So, Lunar New Year is the first new moon of the year. In Shengxiao, or…
Happy Holidays!
I know it’s something of a cliché to thank readers at this time of the year, but we’re feeling it, and so… thank you. It wouldn’t be any fun writing if no-one was reading. In this 140-character world we live in, I think it’s quite a lot to ask of someone to read something longer,…
Edging and Orgasm Control
Erotic sexual denial is a sexual practice in which a heightened state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended length of time without orgasm. Commonly, most of us would probably call it “orgasm control”. For some, it’s a common part of a BDSM or sexual bondage scene. It can be short term or long term….
Happy Holidays
We hope you have a great Christmas!