The term “little” is like the term “BDSM”. It’s a chocolate box with a variety of flavours inside. Although age play is not necessarily BDSM as such (though it might involve discipline), it does share something in common. In anything where we take on roles, we are effectively exploring. We try things on to see…
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Age Play and littles – Exploring The Inner Child
WHAT IS A LITTLE? Most littles take the role of a submissive child in age play. There are switch littles and (rare) Dominant littles, but overwhelmingly it is a sub role. I will define age play as a scene or time (or entire relationship) in which one person (usually the submissive) acts and may dress…
Medical Advice on Prolonged Chastity
PROSTATE MASSAGE – TO MILK OR NOT TO MILK? Chastity for an hour, a day or even a week isn’t going to harm anyone, but what about months at a time or longer? Whether or not prostate milking is necessary is a much-discussed topic on the internet, and some fairly shady websites and product sellers…
The Freedom of Bondage
i believe there are some kinksters who may experience a sense of freedom living in chains and restraints. Although i do not have much experience in prolonged restraint, i can imagine how restraints, bondage and imprisonment could bring a sense of inner-freedom and inner-peace. That’s really what i wanted to write about today… bridging the…
Punishment or Funishment?
I think at some point or another, most kinksters have brought a little (or a lot of) funishment into the bedroom. We don’t spend our evenings perusing the Mr S online store because we’ve got out-of-control subs, we do it because we play hard. “you’ve been a very naughty boy. Get over my knee, I’m…
Behavior Modification Using Reinforcement and Punishment
Some degree of behaviour modification is part of nearly every Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationship. The sub pleases the Dom by bending to some degree to their will. Unless there’s an absolutely perfect fit at the beginning of the relationship, there will be some degree of what we’d affectionately call “training”. There are really only two…
Fearplay – How Scary Is The Edge?
Let me tell you about scared. Your heart is beating so hard I can feel it through your hands. There’s so much blood and oxygen pumping through your brain it’s like rocket fuel. Right now you can run faster and fight harder and jump higher than ever in your life, and you’re so alert it’s…
Chastity – Sexy Games for Solo Players
Chastity can be serious business… except when it’s not. If you think denying yourself orgasm could be fun, then you’re not alone. Lots of guys are into chastity, and there are lots of ways to have fun with it. Let’s get the note of caution out of the way first. If you’ve got a brand…
Chastity – A Practical Guide for the Long Distance Keyholder
In a good world we wouldn’t have geographical separation to cope with, but it is what it is and sometimes we have to incorporate distance as an element in what we do. I’m going to share the system of long-distance chastity that we use. I’m sure it’s not the only way, but it works for…
An Online Dominant’s Illustrative Primer
I hope that this article will prove helpful to (possibly young and inexperienced) Dominants taking their first steps into exploring online domination. I will attempt to offer some guidance on basic chat etiquette and how, once you find some kind of online community, to talk to submissives, set up and interact with play scenes, and…