What’s in your sadomasochist (S/m) repertoire? If you think of role-play as “I’m the stern headmaster and you’re the naughty student” then some people enjoy that kind of play and some people don’t find much in it. In this context we’re talking about role-play as making up fictional characters or putting ourselves as real characters…
Category: Kinks
Brats, SAMs and Break-mes
Brats are possibly something of a misunderstood species. They get a bad rap by many in the community who immediately associate the role with “petulant child”. But is that really what a brat is? We’d call a child a brat if they’re misbehaving, but most submissives who identify as brats see it as a role…
Edging and Orgasm Control
Erotic sexual denial is a sexual practice in which a heightened state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended length of time without orgasm. Commonly, most of us would probably call it “orgasm control”. For some, it’s a common part of a BDSM or sexual bondage scene. It can be short term or long term….
Anal Fisting – Keeping it Safe, Clean and Disease-free
by Larry R. Shockey This is part 4 of a 4-part guide to anal fisting by Larry Shockey, organizer of Hell Hole San Francisco and Fist Fest. • Part 1 – Learning the Basics • Part 2 – Preparing for Play (Advice for Fisting Tops and bottoms) • Part 3 – The Mind-Body Connection (Headspace…
Anal Fisting – The Body-Mind Connection
by Larry R. Shockey This is part 3 of a 4-part guide to anal fisting by Larry Shockey, organizer of Hell Hole San Francisco and Fist Fest. • Part 1 – Learning the Basics • Part 2 – Preparing for Play (Advice for Fisting Tops and bottoms) • Part 4 – Keeping It Safe, Clean…
Illustrated Guide – Gags
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. gag: Any device or object designed to be placed in the mouth, most commonly to prevent a person from speaking or making loud…
Anal Fisting – Preparing for Play
by Larry R. Shockey This is part 2 in a 4-part guide to anal fisting by Larry Shockey, organizer of Hell Hole San Francisco and Fist Fest. • Part 1 – Learning the Basics • Part 3 – The Mind-Body Connection (Headspace Before, During and After the Scene) • Part 4 – Keeping It Safe,…
Anal Fisting – Learning the Basics
by Larry R. Shockey This is the first in a comprehensive 4-part guide to anal fisting by Larry Shockey, organizer of Hell Hole San Francisco and Fist Fest. • Part 2 – Preparing for Play (Advice for Fisting Tops and bottoms) • Part 3 – The Mind-Body Connection (Headspace Before, During and After the Scene)…
Illustrated Guide – Genital Piercing
This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. FURTHER READING • Piercing Bible – Female Genital Piercing • Piercing Bible – Male Genital Piercing • Piercing Heart – Different Piercing Types • Beyond The Pain – Female Genital Piercing • Beyond The Pain – Male Genital Piercing
Keeping It Clean – Hygiene and Safety for Toys and Sharps
By Fledermaus Each person must understand that these are relative degrees of cleanliness and safety as they apply to various kinds of contaminants. As with all BDSM play, both Top and bottom must understand the levels of risk and accept that risk for the activities in which they engage. Sterile Something that is sterile is…