In the U.S., BDSM history is richly steeped in leather culture and the stories of returning WWII veterans and motorcycle clubs. Parts of the community, including Sissy Maids, get overlooked in these stories, yet they have a rich, and better documented, history in Europe. We’ve had quite a number of queries for a Sissy Maid…
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Human Puppy Play & BDSM Training 1: Finding The Headspace
by Brian Dawson This is part 1 of a 4 part series on puppy play. Part 2: Types of Dogs and Puppies Part 3: Biology – Veterinary Tips for the Human Dog Part 4: Basic Training There are those of us in this wide world who, for one reason or another, identify with animals. For…
Sparking Your BDSM with Electricity
by Dean Dunlap In Real Estate they teach the three most important things to remember are location, location, and location. In Electricity, the three most important things to remember are safety, safety, and safety. Electricity is potentially dangerous. Hell yes! So is fisting. So is the highly volatile fluid fluid sloshing around under the back…
Strip Searches
by T.A. Feldwebel A good way of setting a mood in a prison scene is strip searches of a prisoner upon arrival. This is a standard procedure upon the admission of a prisoner to a military stockade but can be modified slightly to enhance the effect in a scene. When bringing your prisoner to the…
Illustrated Guide – Wax Melting Points
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. wax play: The top drips hot wax on the bottom. (See “fire and ice“) Safety note: It is important what kind of candle…
What’s the Big Deal About Spanking Butts?
by Gene K Admit it or not, we all would like to find some evidence of the existence of a caring deity, a God force in our world. For me, this evidence came in two forms. The first was made manifest to me in my early twenties. Someone cut into an apple. Only this time…
Illustrated Guide – Body Writing Tools
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. Although the 1996 Peter Greenaway film The Pillow Book was an erotic and poetic look at body writing, in BDSM it is usually…
Two Easy Mummification Techniques
by Gil Kessler Basic mummification is fun, easy and inexpensive. It places the bottom in a situation of powerlessness and sensory deprivation which allows him to float off, forget his problems, and offer his complete trust to the Top. The Top derives enjoyment and satisfaction from his sense of total control, from the pleasure he…
The Origins of Shibari Japanese Rope Bondage – For Pain and Pleasure
By Morgan IS IT HOJOJUTSU, SHIBARI OR KINBAKU? The most widely used term for Japanese rope bondage now is “shibari”, which is actually a (correct) alternative pronounciation of the Japanese written characters for Hojojutsu. The same Japanese character can be read in different ways, and Shibari and Hojojutsu (捕縄術) both look the same when written….
Illustrated Guide – Pet Play Tailplugs
We’ve reblogged this illustration from Boyfriend and ExBoyfriend BDSM Gallery. He’s got great taste in NSFW pics too. This is a regular series of illustrated guides. You can find the others here. animal play: (see pet play, ponygirl , ponyboy, pup-play) The sub behaves and/or dresses like an animal. The principal theme of animal role…