How Ritual in BDSM Brings Us Closer To Our Authentic Self

Every morning when I wake up, there is a breakfast tray on my balcony with food and coffee. In the evening when I go to bed, my boy/s are kneeling beside it. We often talk about rules, rituals and protocols, and I wanted to talk a little about why, of the three, I find rituals…

Human Puppy Play & BDSM Training 4: Basic Training

by Brian Dawson This is part 4 of a 4 part series on puppy play. Part 1: Finding the Headspace Part 2: Types of Dogs and Puppies Part 3: Biology – Veterinary Tips for the Human Dog CANINE BEHAVIOUR, BODY LANGUAGE & EXPRESSION The first goal of the would-be dog slave is to learn to…

Quiz: Does Your Enneagram Personality Affect Who You Are In Your D/s Role?

Based on the work started in the 1960s and 70s by South American human potential psychiatrists Oscar Ichazo and Claudio Naranjo, the Enneagram of Personality (Enneagram) is a typology of nine interconnected personality types. It’s said to date back to knowledge from 4th century Alexandria. By being aware of what enneagram personality type we are,…

Quiz – What’s Your MBTI Personality Type?

In the famous Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, there are four possible pairs: • Introversion (I) or Extraversion (E) • Intuition (N) or Sensing (S) • Thinking (T) or Feeling (F) • Judging (J) or Perceiving (P) Briggs and Myers work is based on Jung’s theories of the 1920s, and it’s such an established personality typing that…

Human Puppy Play & BDSM Training 2: Types of Dogs and Puppies

This is part 2 of a 4 part series on puppy play. Part 1: Finding the Headspace Part 3: Biology – Veterinary Tips for the Human Dog Part 4: Basic Training Show Dog A prissy and proud sort of dog. In this role proper posture and intense concentration upon commands is important. Learning to follow…

What Sexual Orientation Are You Really?

For a long time we all talked about sexual orientation in the terms defined in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 book Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male. Kinsey used a scale of 0 to 6, from heterosexual to homosexual with 5 shades of grey. In recent years we’ve also started talking about sexual orientation in terms of…

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In the U.S., BDSM history is richly steeped in leather culture and the stories of returning WWII veterans and motorcycle clubs. Parts of the community, including Sissy Maids, get overlooked in these stories, yet they have a rich, and better documented, history in Europe. We’ve had quite a number of queries for a Sissy Maid…

Human Puppy Play & BDSM Training 1: Finding The Headspace

by Brian Dawson This is part 1 of a 4 part series on puppy play. Part 2: Types of Dogs and Puppies Part 3: Biology – Veterinary Tips for the Human Dog Part 4: Basic Training There are those of us in this wide world who, for one reason or another, identify with animals. For…