Using the “Tonight, I want…!” Negotiation Sheet is simple: Give one copy to each person in the scene and ask them to fill it out. Ask questions! When you say you want spanking, does that have to be limited to your butt, or can I smack your chest too? Discuss the terms, and maybe write in your own extras! When you’re done, you’ll have a physical list of what the plan for the scene is that will have far less confusion than if you tried to do it all off the top of your head.

Download the Negotiation Sheet as a PDF

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

The Rain City TNG group is a non-profit social and educational organization based in Seattle, WA for those 18-35. They organize social, play, and educational based events and provide a safe space for young people to explore and understand the complexities of human sexuality.

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