You’ll often hear people talking with derision about “no limits slaves”. How can they possibly exist? Everyone has limits.
Yet, i believe they can and do exist. We read so many love stories where one character is willing to die for the other. It exists in fiction because it is part of our human psyche. Because it is part of our collective consciousness, i think it is an ideal that some people try to make real. But, often the process of transitioning fiction into reality is the difficult part that burns us out and wear us down.
FROM THE VIEWPOINT OF THE SLAVE
The practicality of being a slave requires the reciprocity of the Dominant. Without a Dominant/Master, a slave is nothing more than a fantasy. It makes sense then that a “no limits slave” would require a “no limits Dominant”. Does such a Dominant exist? I’m sure He does, but it’s difficult to know what the term might mean.
What would “no limits slave” actually mean? It probably means something like “You can push as far as You want”. That kind of statement doesn’t really encompass any kind of terms and conditions, such as whether what is (or will be) happening is responsible and sane, or irresponsible and insane.
So, the “no limit” slave can exist, but the question really becomes not so much whether one’s lack of limits is infinite or not, it becomes “how?” and “why?”
FROM THE VIEWPOINT OF THE DOMINANT
If you are a responsible Dominant, You will want to know everything about your slave – what turns him on and what turn him off, what You want from the relationship and where the limits are drawn between You and Your slave.
So, a slave who tells you they have no limits isn’t really helping You to do Your job.
A common thing to hear in the BDSM community is that “a good Dom will protect their property”. So, a “no limits slave” is actually transferring responsibility for setting limits to the Dominant. This ties in with concepts of Total Power Exchange (TPE) and Consensual Non-Consent (CNC). In TPE and CNC, the limits of the slave might be a guide or suggestion to the Dominant, but they are not a directive.
We like to think that everyone involved in D/s or BDSM is safe, sane and consensual, but we all know that’s not true. There are Dominants who are irresponsible, and there are those who will use you however They want, and don’t care if you are injured in the process. There are Dominants who, according to law, would be criminals, and who are capable of harming their slave. And it’s not to say that there are not matching submissives who seek these kinds of Dominants and don’t mind being hurt or injured. Rules are often out of the window in the world of BDSM. It’s a dangerous, dark area of BDSM, but it exists.
If you’re starting out, exploring BDSM, then you may not know your limits yet, but to enter into negotiations as a “no limits slave” is like jumping into the dark ocean without actually knowing what the ocean is. Meet the wrong Dominants and you could drown.
That goes doubly if you are dealing with any mental health issues. If you are, your limits are helping you to predict and understand what is happening, stay level and cope with your experiences.
NO LIMITS IN M/S RELATIONSHIPS
If you have found a Dominant that you trust to be your Master, then within the relationship it’s common to agree to give all power of judgement for your limits to Him. It doesn’t mean that you have none, but in TPE/CNC once your limits are discussed and understood they are transferred to the Dominant’s discretion and they are no longer really yours. It’s an amazing journey, and i hope You find beauty in uncertainty, construction and reconstruction in your world of BDSM.
In CNC/TPE relationships, the focus for the submissive shifts. What you want and how you want it is no longer the focus. The core questions become: what does your Dominant want, and how does your Dominant want it?. you need to start asking your Master what He wants, and start working on things that please Him.
Positive, sane, responsible “no limits relationships” embrace and explore trust between the Master and the slave. Negative, insane, irresponsible “no limit relationships” are impulsive, and can be harmful or dangerous. i believe both types exist, and we have a choice to be what we want to be.
If you truly believe that you have no limits, you still get a choice about what kind of relationship you enter into.
This post is a couple of years old, but I thought I’d leave a comment. I consider “no limits” to be anything that does not seriously wound a slave. Death, maiming, etc I’d consider too far for anyone to do. Even if they wanted to, the legality of it would be a problem. By that definition, I am a no-limits Master who has been searching for a no-limits slave. Does such a slave exist? I don’t know.
Hi RICH,
i can’t believe it has been two years since this article was written and edited, time flies, they do flies. Allows me to share my humble thoughts.
i think the beauty of BDSM subculture – which i deeply in love with – is the flexibility and diversity underneath. A BDSM big cultural umbrella of suggested traditions, rules, consents and established ethics with many written and unwritten social contracts, that gives every kinksters a chance to practice and realize their ideal thoughts, imagination and fantasy.
Ultimately it all boils down to You and Your partner(s), You and Your slave(s)/ Master(s). And that Master and slave dynamics are unique one that is agreed upon between the parties involved, which (ideally) would encompass the discussion and plan of “Death, Life, Torments, Prostitution, illegal activities, etc”. Whether no-limit slaves exists? Yes i believe they do, but it is not a simple chop of “No-limit slave” like a chop of “sugar-free” on your juice boxes. It is always a continuous negotiations of the social contracts between a Master and His slave.
sincerely,
boydenon
No limit slave 646 973 8739
Im extrem slave….concept – degradation slave
MASTER/MISTRESS TOILET SLAVES most depraved and disgusting Toilet Slave !! The masochist pig, beg to be badly abused and humiliated, until the fag’s fat body was completely covered in bloody marks,bruises & welts. The submissive depraved PIG, deserved to be abused & degraded and forced to do the most filthy obscene & disgusting acts !! the worthless scum, to be used as a TOILET not only by Mistress, but by other sadistic & perverted dominant males & females.
Slave had eaten or sucked huge amounts of SHIT, mostly from mistress,master,every day 2 -5 poeple, but also from other Dominant Females, Sandy’s Black Master Leon, and other males.
Mistress would completely cover the disgusting PIG in shit !! packing the cunts holes with Stinking Turds & Horse Manure, and then beating the fag some more !! Mistress had used the Sissy Slave in several of her own VIDEOS & CLIP STORES.
Besides the beatings and being used as a toilet, the slave also wanted the SLUT to look pretty enough, to WHORE herself out on the street, dressed in a tight mini dress with the most of it’s fat welted ass exposed, wearing the lingerie trashy, with big fake tits, heavy whore makeup and her blonde wig, would arrange to have guys meet and abuse the fag, as it prostituted herself in an alleyway, near Lisa’s play space, The Sissy Slut would get on it’s knees and suck guys off or get fucked in the alleyway for a few dollars, if they paid a bit extra, they could do anything they wanted to the fagot, beating the sissy up, using it as a toilet, pissing in the mouths, making it clean out there assholes, spitting , blowing snot, shooting cum over the slave’s face, humiliating the filthy WHORE !!
Slave had to go to the places where the prettiest prostitutes are. Here he was obliged to have sex three times a week with at least 10 boys, men. They were mostly criminals, boys without money, they only paid a few dollars. Matser or the mistress has always told the boys to make arrangements, and bay has always been at least 5 at a time. Slave has the duty of all languages to clean up dirty analias, penises, drink their urine, lick the anils from shit, ehat fucnikng, beat, whip. Or the slave had to go to pornokina, glory-sticks, there were condoms on the floor, there was cum, he had to climb.
Master / Misterss have the right, without limitation, to EXTREME SESSIONS, the DEPRAVED & DISGUSTING SLUT, really transformed into a TOILET PIG !! These sessions would last up to Two Weeks!
Mistress would give the masochist slave a very severe and brutal beating, using all sorts of whips, canes and paddles on the groveling scum for several hours until PIG was groveling at her feet, crying & whimpering, it’s disgusting face swollen & it’s fat body Slave would get really excited and could not wait to SHIT a big load into the PIGS wide open mouth, as it begged for it !! the toilet scum would first drink up the mistress piss, and then wrap her lips around a big turd sucking it, like it was a big brown cock, eating all of it, making grunting & oinking sounds !! mistress would slap and punch the PIGS she’s doing her forcing her handfuls of shit into the cunts of filthy mouth, then packing the filthy scums asshole with DOG TURDS, the mistress loved to degrade the PIG, her pussy soaking wet, as she got more and more depraved and disgusting, The brutal beatings and abuse would continue over the next few days, using the pathetic fag as a toilet several times a day, Lisa also invited over her sadistic female friends, and they spent the whole day abusing and degrading the pathetic sissy beg, beating and slapping it’s face, laughing at the masochist
Then they all used the PIG as a toilet, and one of the females vomited into the toilet scums shit filled mouth,
piss & shit in the PIGS mouth, and then whoever wanted to, also used the PIG as a toilet !!
During 14 days of intense training, the master and the mistress have always got at least 10 boys and men every day, mostly out of the street, criminals, the poor, and where prostitution has had to have sex with slaves with 10 men, all drink piss, lick anali, very hard was bent by the cable, the bit, was made to all of shitting on the slave. That was not all. It took about 3 hours. when a slave came home, a master and a mistress, and other women, men, couples. Extreme abuse of the slave took place for 14 days all day. The goal was the abolute resignation of the slave to the dirt, extreme, pain, sex.Mistress and the masters advertised a lot, went to places where they were not the most dirty prostitutes, spoke to criminals, street boys, and they had a great number of boys, men, but also girls, women who wanted a slave. A slave is everybody abused by a bunch of 10 boys, girls. Regularly. for several hours. That’s not all. At home is master, mistress, their friends. a slave is only an object that is intended for abuse, abuse, dirt, perversion, prostitution, humiliation, degradation.nse training, the master and the mistress have always got at least 10 boys and men every day, mostly out of the street, criminals, the poor, and where prostitution has had to have sex with slaves with 10 men, all drink piss, lick Anali, very hard was bent by the cable, the bit, was made to all of the shitting on the slave. That was not all. It took about 3 hours. when a slave came home, a master and a mistress, and other women, men, couples. Extreme abuse of the slave took place for 14 days all day. The goal was the abolute resignation of the slave to the dirt, extreme, pain, sex.Mistress and masters advertised a lot, went to places where they were not the most dirty prostitutes, spoke to the criminals, street boys, and they had a great number of boys, men, but also girls, women who wanted a slave. A slave is everybody abused by a bunch of 10 boys, girls. Regularly. for several hours. That’s not all. At home is master, mistress, their friends. a slave is only an object that is intended for abuse, abuse, dirt, perversion, prostitution, humiliation, degradation. Every day is extremely tortured on the nipples, very extremely, he experiences very hard cbt, needles, electro, ball busting, his anal opening is continuously stretched by a big dildo. Master has two blacks who have my cock 27×6 and 26×7.5 cm and these slaves regularly very much fucking, rape. Slavery’s duty is only to make money. Prostitution on the street, porn porn, little money, then extreme clients at home, a lot, then the most extreme porn.
Age:45
Where you live:nolimitextremslave
B. How long have you known of your interest in bdsm? 25
C. What is your sexual orientation?
2. Bisexual yes
5. Open to training controlled by my Master? yes
D. What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide to a Master?
1. Long term, live in
2. Offline, meeting often
3. Offline, meeting occasionally
4. Online and offline, meeting often
5. Online and offline, meeting occasionally
6. Online only yes
7. Not sure yet
E. Main interest
1. Sensual and physical yes
2. Psychosexual and mental yes
3. Both equally yes
4. serving your Master yes
F. Are you… (rate each from 1=lowest to 10=highest) if explanation is necessary do so.
Sadistic ____0
Masochistic ____10
Dominant ____0
Submissive ____10
Switch ____0
G. Your level of interest in bondage:
1. Total helplessness 10
2. Light bondage 10
3. Not my favorite thing 10
4. Outside my limits 10
5. Never tried it 10
H. Pain (what you are, or what you’re looking for) 10
1. Pain slut 10
2. Whipping, caning, paddling 10
3. Light paddling, sensual whipping, no marks 10
4. not interested
9. Describe the following areas that you have endured and how you would like your limits expanded within each situation.
a. Tit torture 10
b. Ass play 10
c. Bondage scenes 10
d. Whipping scenes 10
10. Describe one area not mentioned you have endured and how you would like your limits of such expanded. – eat shit, dirty, needels
11. In what area(s) do you require concentrated training? group , sex with anyone
Do you prefer your Master to be:
Rough, tough, and stubborn?10
Firm, stern, yet considerate?10
15) Tell me of your sexual energy ?10
a) I like sex anytime I can get it with multi-partners.10
you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5 (“?” means you don’t understand what the item is attempting to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).NO means basically a hard limit and that you have absolutely no desire to do this.0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Master to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object if it was asked of you.2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible. Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Master to know in the margin to the right.BDSM check LIST Abrasion
:Anal sex (bottom) :5
If so, ever without condoms?:5
Anal plugs (small) :5
Anal plugs (large) 5
:Anal plug (public, under clothes):5
Ass licking (giving):5
Ass licking (receiving):5
Bathroom use control 5
:Beating (soft) 5
:Beating (hard) :5
Bestiality (k9):5
Bestiality -other:5
Blindfolds :5
Being bitten :5
Ben wa balls or kegel balls:5
:Branding :5
:Bondage (heavy) :5
Bondage (multi-day) :5
Bondage (public, under clothing) :5
Brown showers (scat) :5
Cages (locked inside of) :5
Caning :5
Catheterization :5
Cattle prod or stun gun (electrical toy) :5
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :5
Chains :5
Chastity belts 5
:Clothespins :5
:Cock sucking:5
Do you swallow?:5
Collars (worn in private) :5
Collars (worn in public) :Cuffs (leather) :5
Cuffs (metal) :5
Denied privacy:5
describe the denial:5
Douches as part of play:5
Double Penetration (anal and cunt):5
Dildos :5
Eating Cunt:5
Eating shit:5
Electricity :5
Enemas (for cleansing) :5
Enemas (retention/punishment) :5
Enforced chastity :5
Erotic dance (for audience):5
Erotic dance (private) :5
Examinations (physical) :5
Exercise (forced/required) :5
Exhibitionism :Eye contact restrictions 5
:Face slapping :5
Fantasy rape 5
:Fear (being scared) :5
Fisting (anal) :5
Flame (fire play) play 5
:Foot worship :5
:Forced nudity (private) :5
Forced nudity (around others) :5
Forced servitude :5
Full head hoods :5
Gags (cloth) :5
Gags (inflatable) :5
Gags (phallic) :5
Gags (rubber) :Gags (tape) :5
Gas masks :5
Given away to another Master (temp) :5
Servicing another Master upon command:5
Golden showers :H5
airbrush spankings :5
Hair pulling :5
Hand jobs (giving) :5
arnessing (leather and or rope) :5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :Hoods :5
Hot Creams (Ben-Gay) on genitals:5
Hot oils (on genitals) :5
Hot waxing :Housework (doing) :5
Human puppy dog :5
Humiliation :5
Immobilization :5
:Medical scenes :5
Modeling for erotic photos :5
Photographing training sessions with your Master:5
Mouth bits :5
Multi-partners:5
Mummification :5
Needle Play:5
Nipple clamps 5
:Nipple rings (piercing):5
Nipple play/”torture” :i5
f a type not listed then explain:5
Nipple weights :5
Obeying verbal commands such as “kneel”, “stand” or “Present.”Oral/anal play (rimming):5
Over-the-knee spanking :5
Orgasm denial :5
Orgasm control :5
Outdoor scenes :5
Outdoor sex :5
Pain (severe) :5
Pain (mild) :5
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):Piercing (permanent) :5
Prison scenes :5
Punching:i5
f yes to punching, explain5
Punishment Scene :5
if yes, describe the scene play5
describe torture:5
Restrictive rules on behavior :5
Rubber/latex clothing :5
Rope body harness :5
Role playing:5
Saran wrapping :5
Sensory deprivation 5:
Serving as ashtray :5
Serving as furniture :5
Serving as a maid :5
Serving as toilet (urine) :5
Serving orally (sexual) :5
Serving other Masters (supervised) :5
Serving other Masters (unsupervised):5
Serving others as sex slave:5
Shaving (body hair) :5
Shaving (head hair) :5
Slave positions training:S5
leep deprivation :5
Spandex clothing :5
Spanking :5
Speech restrictions (when, what) :5
Spitting :Spreader bars :5
Stocks :5
Straight jackets :5
Strapping (full body beating) :5
Strap-on dildo receiving:5
Strap-on dildo giving:S5
uspension (upright) :5
Suspension (inverted) :5
Suspension (horizontal) :5
Supplying new partners for Master :5
Swallowing semen :5
Swallowing urine: 5
Video (watching others) :5
Video (recordings5
eat shit 5
lick extreme dirty anal, vagina,dick 5
grupp 5
bestiality:5
masters,mistress group 5-10 sex,torture, abused 5
masters,mistress group 5-10 full toilet services 5
extrem dirty 5
forced “prostitution”5
sex -prostitution – min. 20 clients/week 5
8 hours sleep, 16 yours only object, no human rights 5
Hard limit : no damage health, no destruction testicles, no impotence, no permenent scars, burns, no tatoo, modification cock, testicles, castration
NO LIMIT-without limit: pervers, dirty,toilet,eat shit,drink piss,enema mix piss,shit,eating cum, -pornokino-condom-eat cum, dirty,lick street boys,woman genitalien, extrem dirty,no limit number poeple/day-sex,pervers,torture,prostitution, porno, degradation,torture,pain,inhuman abused,..
Most are definitely a turn on!!