If you caste your eyes below to the footer, you’ll see we’ve added some free downloadable documents you might find useful.
Disclaimer – we take no responsibility for the contents (especially the consensual s/M contracts). We didn’t write any of these, they’re old documents of unknown origin. Most are in .doc format so you can open them and customise them to suit your unique needs.
I’ve personally never used a contract, but there are a couple of documents that I’ve found very useful:
Owner’s Manual
This is a 14 page handbook intended to be used by the Dominant to learn the keys to His/Her submissive’s behaviour. It was created by Master Michael Krause (PassionWolf), an experienced BDSM relationship counselor, as a tool to open the communication between Dom and sub up to a deeper and more honest level. There are 9 modules covering personal history, dreams and goals, fears, hobbies and habits, health and fetishes.
boydenon filled this out for me when I first met him, and it was a valuable experience for both of us. We found the BDSM fetish likes/dislikes checklist to be difficult to use because of the PDF format, so you might find it handy to use the BDSM Play Partner Checklist in conjunction with this.
Another document (which I haven’t used), with similar goals to the Owner’s Manual, is the Slave Training Questionnaire. It’s a bit more free-flowing and less focused with its questions and it also includes a fetish checklist.
Body Measurements
The other document that I really like is the BDSM Body Measurement Chart. It has all the information that a maker of leather harnesses, jackets, pants etc would require to fit your boy out with something hot.
There’s a ready-made objectification scene just in filling out the chart, which is fun, but I think it’s also potentially handy to have a record of measurements. Personally, I’d supplement it with head circumference, glove size, shoe size, commercial clothing sizes and spectacle power too. I also think it’s responsible to keep scanned copies of passports, ID cards etc, so perhaps I’m an information hoarder, but I think many submissives would tell you that there’s a nice feeling of ownership that comes with giving this information.
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Thank you for making this available. I really like the way it’s presented.
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Thank you for these. They have come in handy with my submissive and I finding out footing and balancing what we want.
I’m Mistress Tiffany, I’m a dominatrix based in New York, I possess an erotic, perverse, and mischievous mind with a penchant for psychological torture,” and i was born a dominant person. I specialize in foot & body worship, slave training, rope bondage, fear play, spanking, flogging and whipping. I’ve always been a dominant person, i do feel that in a way I was born in a dominant role, I was always someone that liked to be in charge but of course I was in charge in ways where people didn’t think I was in charge, which in the BDSM world is called “topping from the bottom”. I slowly learned what I liked and how I liked it. Over the years and through a stint of submission and not having the confidence in myself to be who I wanted to be (who I knew I was) it eventually just clicked and I decided “I was no longer going to be the victim and take control of my life and my sexuality”. Instead of me regretting my sexual experiences I could take charge and feel good about my sexual needs, wants and desires.The more I learned about BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadomasochism), the more I found my role. I find that there is strength in submission as well as strength in dominance. I am open minded. I make no assumptions based on social status or public perception. I’m also interested in the erotic and sensual experience of BDSM.
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